Tom Selleck has long been one of Hollywood’s most iconic leading men – known for his charisma, charm, and of course, his signature mustache. Over decades in the spotlight, fans and tabloids have speculated about his romantic life. Here’s a timeline of reported and confirmed relationships, from early marriages to rumored flings.
Jacqueline Ray (Married 1971–1982)
Selleck’s first marriage was to model and actress Jacqueline Ray. They tied the knot in 1971 and divorced in 1982. During their marriage, Selleck adopted Ray’s son, Kevin Shepard, and raised him as his own. This relationship is one of the few confirmed and publicly acknowledged partnerships in his life.
Reported Relationships and Rumors
Over the years, tabloids and sources have linked Selleck to several high-profile actresses, though most of these remain unverified:
- Jaclyn Smith (1976) – Some reports suggest a brief romantic link with the Charlie’s Angels star.
- Dana Delaney (1980) – Rumors circulated about a possible relationship during the early 1980s.
- Jill St. John (1981) – Tabloids hinted at a short-lived romance.
- Neni Rogers (1982–1983) – Alleged relationship during the early post-divorce years.
- Goldie Hawn (1983) – Another rumored connection; Selleck and Hawn were friends, but no confirmed relationship has ever been confirmed.
- Marie Helen (1983) – Reported briefly in gossip outlets.
- Cynthia Rhodes (1984) – Linked in tabloids but never publicly acknowledged.
- Laura San Jakamo (1990) – Reported as a brief dating relationship.
Jillie Mack (Married 1987–Present)
Selleck’s most enduring and confirmed relationship has been with Jillie Mack, an English actress and dancer. The two met in London in the 1980s and married in 1987. They have a daughter, Hannah, and have maintained a private and stable life together, often credited as one of Hollywood’s longest-lasting partnerships.
The Bottom Line
While tabloids have often speculated about Tom Selleck’s love life, the only confirmed relationships remain his marriages to Jacqueline Ray and Jillie Mack. Other rumored relationships – from Jaclyn Smith to Goldie Hawn – remain unverified and largely anecdotal.
Despite decades in the public eye, Selleck is known for his loyalty and discretion, showing that his off-screen life is far more private and grounded than his on-screen roles might suggest.


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